sometimes talking helps

Hello all,
some of you know I spoke in stake conference this last week.  The topic I was given was "developing Christ like attributes in the midst of adversities."  I found this a hard topic to prepare.  I usually find it easy to talk in church or in front of a bunch of people, like stake conference.  But it was hard, because instead of speaking on gospel doctrine, and sharing scriptures, I had to share my personal trials, and weaknesses, to get the points across I wanted to share.  But on a good note, I only blubbered a little bit, and I wasn't alone.  I saw a few people in the audience wipe their eyes, maybe they were trying to stay awake.  It made me realize how blessed I and my family are, and want to reiterate once again, thank you with all my heart, for the support, prayers and assistance that you have all given us.  I have also realized over the last little while that melanoma is like a chronic illness and needs to be treated as such.  We are happy with the time we have together as a family and with you all.  We work hard to stay healthy and aware of how my body is behaving.  When something isn't quite right, I get on the phone or email my doctor and counsel with them to plan our next step.  Sometimes we wait, and sometimes I have to hurry down to the emergency room.  I prefer the waiting most days.  I learned a new trick, having breathing problems when storm fronts come through.  I never said it was a good trick, just a trick.  I am learning to adjust to this one, but it really is a pain, literally.  Having said that, we are all doing well and continue to pray for all of your good health and to never have to go through what we have and are going through.  If it ever turns out you start down this same path, let us know, we are always willing to lend a shoulder to cry on, or a ear to listen to your problems.  We might give you some advice you don't like, or don't understand why, but we have a weird sense of how to do things.  It has worked out pretty good for us.  We love you all and thanks again,
Merry Christmas and have a lovely day,
Love Andy and Family.